Friend Scatters Loved One鈥檚 Ashes At Melbourne Gay Bar
Image: Image: Melbourne's Beloved Gay Bar Sircuit (Left)
Giving 鈥淩est in Glitter鈥� a whole new meaning, friends of a dearly departed individual found an unconventional way to honour their memory鈥攂y scattering their ashes on the stage at Melbourne鈥檚 beloved gay bar, Sircuit, right in the middle of a drag performance.
The bizarre tribute was recounted by drag performer Tavonga in a now-viral Instagram video. The incident took place during a performance by drag artists Ugliest Hottie, Femme Brulee, and Tavonga at Sircuit on July 28, 2024.
鈥淟ast night, I was performing at Sircuit with Ugliest Hottie and Femme Brulee, and while we were doing the cast call, I noticed this white powder on the stage,鈥� recalled Tavonga.
Mastery Powder Scattered On The Stage
The mystery powder turned out to be none other than the ashes of a deceased friend. 鈥淟ater on, we found out from the person who put the powder on the stage that it was their friend鈥檚 ashes鈥� as in their dead friend鈥檚 ashes,鈥� the drag performer narrated, incredulity written on their face.
The backstory, according to Tavonga, is that on the anniversary of their friend鈥檚 passing, the friend鈥檚 parents distributed the ashes among all their pals. 鈥淭his person thought it was suitable to throw their friend鈥檚 ashes on the stage while we were performing,鈥� said Tavonga.
The ashes, it seems, have found a new resting place. 鈥淭hat friend鈥檚 ashes remain at the bottom of my thigh-high boot right now, sitting in my drag bag. I鈥檓 not going to judge how people process grief, but what the f*%#!鈥�
While Tavonga empathised with the grief of losing a friend, the drag performer questioned the appropriateness of the act. 鈥淚 hope this friend found peace in the afterlife, but I know they are not finding peace on that Sircuit stage. Guys, Sircuit is lovely, but is it really the place to spread your friend鈥檚 ashes?鈥�
Rest In Glitter
This is not the first time that people have found unique ways to celebrate their departed friends and loved ones. In 2016, an opera lover caused a terrorism scare after they scattered their friend鈥檚 ashes into the orchestra pit at New York鈥檚 metropolitan opera. Closer home, in 2022, Sydney Swans fans scattered their grandmother鈥檚 ashes in the middle of the Sydney Cricket Ground during a celebration to mark Buddy Franklin鈥檚 1000th goal.
The Melbourne Cricket Ground has in the past cautioned cricket and AFL fans against scattering their loved one鈥檚 ashes at the venue.
In Victoria, 鈥嬧�� one does not need a permit or permission to scatter ashes at sea, in rivers or aerial scattering. Ashes or remains can be scattered on privately owned property. On private property owned by someone else, one needs permission from the owner of the property.
So, before the latest incident at the gay bar inspires others to plan a dramatic final exit, consider whether your local gay bar is the right venue for your final curtain call. While glitter may be forever, some things are best left in the urn.
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